(A Love Letter to Those Becoming One)
Marriage is one of the most beautiful gifts God ever gave us. Yet, it’s also one of the most sacred. Beneath the flowers, gowns, and grand celebrations lies something far deeper: a divine covenant, not just a contract.
As a team that’s photographed and filmed weddings across the world — from the shores of the Caribbean to the timeless elegance of the Biltmore Estate — we’ve learned that no matter where the vows are exchanged, what truly matters is the heart behind them. The location may change, but the promise remains holy. Here’s 10 things that the Bible says about marriage:
1. Marriage is God’s Design — Not Man’s
“Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
— Mark 10:9
Marriage was God’ s idea from the beginning. It’s not a social trend or a romantic whim — it’s a divine pairing meant to mirror His relationship with the Church.
2. Love is More Than a Feeling
“Love is patient, love is kind…”
— 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
True love goes beyond butterflies. It’s choosing grace over ego, patience over pride, and forgiveness even when it’s not easy.
3. Marriage is a Covenant , Not a Contract
“I will betroth you to me forever…”
— Hosea 2:19
A contract can be broken, but a covenant is sacred. It’s two soulspledging to build something that honors Heaven — not just themselves.
4. Marriage Reflects God’s Love
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church.”
— Ephesians 5:25
When a husband loves his wife with compassion, humility, and care, it becomes a living example of how Christ loves us.
5. Unity Is Strength
“Two are better than one.”
— Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
Marriage isn’t about perfection — it’s about partnership. When one falls, the other lifts. When life challenges you, your union becomes your fortress.
6. Submission and Love Go Hand in Hand
“Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. ”
— Ephesians 5:21
True submission isn’t about control — it’s about mutual respect. It’s the dance of servanthood, where both hearts choose to honor each other daily.
7. Marriage Is a Ministry
“As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”
— Joshua 24:15
Every marriage carries a mission. Together, you’re called to reflectGod’s goodness — in your home, your children, your work, and your love.
8. Forgiveness Is an Everyday Language
“Bear with each other and forgive one another…”
— Colossians 3:13
The best marriages are not built on perfection but on grace. The ability to forgive freely is one of love’s greatest expressions.
9. Intimacy Is Sacred
“The two shall become one flesh.”
— Genesis 2:24
Physical intimacy is more than passion — it’ s a spiritual intertwining that seals your covenant before God.
10. Marriage Requires Daily Renewal
“His mercies are new every morning.”
— Lamentations 3:23
Every day is an invitation to choose each other again — with new eyes, new patience, and new hope.
Final Thoughts
Marriage isn’t just about the pretty moments we photograph — it’s about the quiet prayers, the whispered “I’m sorry,” the laughter after the tears. It’s choosing to build a legacy that reflects God’s love story.
Whether you’re marrying in a cathedral in Italy or beneath the Carolina sky, may your union be anchored in something eternal —because beauty fades, but the covenant remains.
